Thursday, January 30, 2014

school-decorated-for- Chinese New Year-despite-having-no-chinese-pupils





http://www.theborneopost.com/2014/01/30/school-decorated-for-cny-despite-having-no-chinese-pupils/

Photos from The Borneo Post, C/o Raymond Tan Chok Hui


The school has 800 pupils and 64 teachers and a few non-teaching staff.
“Four of our teachers are Chinese,” he pointed out.
“Like before, we are spending very little on the decoration because the materials used are largely recyclable items,” he explained.
 
"We are proud of our harmony, like during the Kampung Dato and Kampung Hilir great fire, lots and lots of Chinese show care and love through donations."editorial.
When I was growing up in the government quarters, the nearest school was this Abang Ali School. We did not go to school. When we completed our primary school, we had a handful of their students go us in the secondary school. We integrated well, and some of my best friends, like Jasnah Obeng came from the school.
It is heart warming that the school, despite having very few Chinese staff and no students are decorating the school for this festive season.
 For my Save the world meme, I am very pleased to read,"we are spending very little on the decoration because the materials used are largely recyclable items,” he explained."


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Borneo post press

3 books by Sibu author set for launching

Posted on October 6, 2013, Sunday
SIBU: The three books penned by Sibu-born author Ann Chin Kit Suet is slated to be officially launched at RH Hotel here on Oct 12.
Second Finance Minister Dato Sri Wong Soon Koh has been invited to launch the books, which are written in English.
This was announced during a press conference at Guangning Association here yesterday. Also present were association chairman Kong Tze Ling, Penghulu Ten Kim Loong and Chin’s family members. Chin’s first book `Diary of a Bereaved Mother’ was published in Kuching in April 2011. It tells of a mother’s trauma sitting for 55 days by her new born son Andrew who was struggling for breath. She loved him, but was unable to help him.
Rebecca Blithe, who received the book, wrote: “For parents undergoing similar experiences, this book can be a great comfort. For health professionals in this field, I would see it as essential reading.”
Chin’s second masterpiece ‘From China to Borneo and Beyond’ was published in February this year. It tells of two families, Chans and Kongs, and traced their history from 1907 in Kwang Zhou, China, to the jungles of Borneo.
It also touched on the Opium war, virgin tropical jungles, World War II, Colonial era and the communist insurgency.
Chin’s latest effort ‘Mail Order Bride’ was published in July. It embodies the darker side of today’s social issues that could arise in any big city from obsession, mail order bride, murder, suicide, toy boy, con Romeo, mother-daughter rivalry, paedophile, child pornography, prostitution, modelling, fraud, childhood shenanigans, runaway street kids, anorexia, nervosa, teen pregnancy street kids and boy racers.

Read more: http://www.theborneopost.com/2013/10/06/3-books-by-sibu-author-set-for-launching/#ixzz2rsKmg72X
http://www.theborneopost.com/2013/10/22/sibu-born-author-holds-book-signing-session/



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Sibu-born author holds book signing session

Posted on October 22, 2013, Tuesday

GREAT AUTHOR: Chin (seated) with others at the signing session.
KUCHING: Sibu-born author Ann Chin Kit Suet held a signing session at Smart Bookshop, Plaza Merdeka here, of the three books she penned.
Chin who now lives in New Zealand was a former student of the Minister of Local government and Community Dato Sri Wong Soon Koh.
Born and bred in Sibu, Chin has self published the three books – A Diary of a Bereaved Mother: Goodbye My Baby (non-fiction), From China to Borneo and Beyond (non-fiction), and Mail Order Bride (fiction).
Wong, who is also Second Finance Minister, said being a writer is not easy, especially when one wanted to make a living out of it.
He pointed out that the beginning is always the hardest as the author is unknown.
“But, when you ask any author why they wanted to write, they have many reasons. If an author could come out with very good books, then the author could earn lots of money, but most of the time making profits is not always the point.”
The books are available at Smart bookshop of the Summer Mall and also at Plaza Merdeka.
The signing session was a success whereby Chin managed to meet up with her long time former students, friends and relatives.
Smart book shop also just opened their 5th branch at the Summer Shopping Mall with an opening promotion of 20 per cent discount for all books and special discount for stationery.
For more information, the public are advised to call 082-673858.
Smart bookshop is proud to participate in this event and will continue to collaborate with local authors to promote local talents in book writing.
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Sibu-born author, Ann Chin Kit Suet promotes books

 

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|     Abdul Hakiim Yakof     |
A PRESS conference was held for the Sibu-born author Ann Chin Kit Suet to promote her three books, which was held at Ximply Chriz Café in Regent Square, Kiulap yesterday.
Ann who is an English teacher, teaching English as a second language to immigrant children at Point Chevalier School, New Zealand, wrote three books; Diary of a Bereaved Mother; From China To Borneo & Beyond and Mail Order Bride which were launched October 12 in Sibu, Sarawak.
Her first book, Diary of a Bereaved Mother, is her autobiography and written journey of knowing her newborn child did not have long to live to eventually losing her child and how she coped after.
Ann Chin Kit Suet and her three books. – ABDUL HAKIIM YAKOF
The book propelled her into public speaking, which she did to share her experience with other bereaved parents.
From China To Borneo and Beyond was her second autobiography book, which is a hundred year old journal of two Families, the Chans and the Kongs. The book contains records of historical events and current affairs endured by her family from 1907 to 2006 such as the Opium war, virgin tropical jungle, the Japanese World War, colonial days, revelation and fighting with the communists.
Her third book, Mail Order Bride is the first fiction piece from Ann. She said that the book targets an audience of young adults and that it appeals readers interested in social issues and ills that young adults have to face.
Ann said that she has been writing since she was little and the people who motivated her to write were her late father and her former history teacher during her days in Methodist Secondary School Sibu, Dato Sri Wong Soon Koh, who is now the Minister of Local Government and Community Development in Sarawak, Malaysia.
“Dato Sri Wong Soon Koh, once brought books by Han Suyin into class and I was amazed that a Chinese born author can write English books. This inspired me to pursue my career as a writer,” she said.
She is also very active in charity work such as setting up funds to support deaf children in Kenya and the NTU Wives funding for separation operations of conjoined twins.
She also said that money from book sales of Diary of a Bereaved Mother go to Sands New Zealand which is a parent-run, non-profit groups supporting families who have experienced the death of their child.
“I didn’t write my book “Diary of a Bereaved Mother” to make money, I wrote it to help people, but all the publicity eventually propelled me into public speaking”, she said.
When asked on her future plans, she said, “I will try to write more fiction in the future, and with the leftover material for ‘From China To Borneo and Beyond’ book, I might just write a sequel of the book.”
Ann’s books can be found in Sarawak Community Library’s, Auckland public Library’s in New Zealand and in New South Wales Librarys in Australia.
Her books are priced at $35 each, $60 for two books and $90 for three books.
For purchases and enquiries, the public can contact Wong Ngie Sek, the Director of Aptbility Trading Company at 8720255 or email at wns@aptbility.com.bn.

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Kiulap: A Press conference was held, for the Sibu-born author Ann Chin Kit Suet to promote her three books, which was held at Ximply Chriz Café in Regent Square, Kiulap yesterday.
Ann who is an English teacher, teaching English as a second language to immigrant children at Point Chevalier School, New Zealand, wrote three books; Diary of a Bereaved Mother; From China To Borneo & Beyond and Mail Order Bride which were launched October 12 in Sibu, Sarawak.
Her first book, Diary of a Bereaved Mother, is her autobiography and written journey of knowing her newborn child did not have long to live to eventually losing her child and how she coped after.
The book propelled her into public speaking, which she did to share her experience with other bereaved parents.
From China To Borneo and Beyond was her second autobiography book, which is a hundred year old journal of two Families, the Chans and the Kongs. The book contains records of historical events and current affairs endured by her family from 1907 to 2006 such as the Opium war, virgin tropical jungle, the Japanese World War, colonial days, revelation and fighting with the communists.
Her third book, Mail Order Bride is the first fiction piece from Ann. She said that the book targets an audience of young adults and that it appeals readers interested in social issues and ills that young adults have to face.
Ann said that she has been writing since she was little and the people, who motivated her to write were her late father and her former history teacher during her days in Methodist Secondary School Sibu, Dato Sri Wong Soon Koh, who is now the Minister of Local Government and Community Development in Sarawak, Malaysia.
"Dato Sri Wong Soon Koh, once brought books by Han Suyin into class and I was amazed that a Chinese born author can write English books. This inspired me to pursue my career as a writer," she said.
She is also very active in charity work such as setting up funds to support deaf children in Kenya and the NTU Wives funding for separation operations of conjoined twins.
She also said that money from book sales of Diary of a Bereaved Mother go to Sands New Zealand which is a parent-run, non-profit groups supporting families who have experienced the death of their child.
"I didn't write my book "Diary of a Bereaved Mother" to make money, I wrote it to help people, but all the publicity eventually propelled me into public speaking", she said.
When asked on her future plans, she said, "I will try to write more fiction in the future, and with the leftover material for 'From China To Borneo and Beyond' book, I might just write a sequel of the book."
Ann's books can be found in Sarawak Community Library's, Auckland public Library's in New Zealand and in New South Wales Librarys in Australia.
Her books are priced at $35 each, $60 for two books and $90 for three books.
For purchases and enquiries, the public can contact Wong Ngie Sek, the Director of Aptbility Trading Company at 8720255 or email at wns@aptbility.com.bn.

Press release

http://www.thestar.com.my/News/Community/2013/10/06/Local-writers-books-to-be-released-on-Oct-12/

SIBU: A local writer, Ann Chin Kit Suet (pic), will have her three books released for sale by Second Finance Minister Datuk Seri Wong Soon Koh on Oct 12.
Ann, who spoke at a press conference yesterday, said the books were Dairy of a Bereaved Mother, From China to Borneo and Beyond, and Mail Order Bride.
Also at the press conference were Guangning Association chairman Kong Tze Ling, community leader Penghulu Ten Kim Loong together with Ann’s family members, associates and friends.
Ann’s first book was published in Kuching in April 2011.
The book is an account of a mother’s trauma during 55 days of taking care of her newborn son Andrew who was struggling to breath.
“A review of the book by Rebecca Blithe wrote: “For parents undergoing similar experiences, this book can be a great comfort. For health professionals ‘in this field’, I would see it as essential reading,” said Ann.
The second book was published last February.
It is about a hundred-year journal of two families — the Chans and the Kongs going back to 1907 in Kwang Zhou, China to the jungles of Borneo followed by six generational records with a second wave of migration to England, Canada, Japan, Singapore, Australia and New Zealand.
This book covers the story of the Opium War, virgin tropical jungle, Second World War, colonial days, a revolution, and a fight against communists which the families had to go through.
As for the Mail Order Bride published in July 2013, it is about the darker side of today’s urban social issues such as obsession, mail order brides, murder, suicide, mother-daughter rivalry, child pornography, prostitution, modelling, fraud, childhood shenanigans, runaway street kids, anorexia, nervosa and teen pregnancy.

Wednesday, January 29, 2014

my Alma Mata, Auckland University.

Photo: Universities played a big part of my life. First as a student, and then a student wife and finally a faculty time.
Today, I am so happy that my first two books: Diary of a bereaved mother, and From China to Borneo to Beyond are circulated by my Alma Mata, Auckland University.

Universities played a big part of my life. In fact all of my adult life. First as a student, and then a student wife and finally a faculty wife.

Today, I am so happy that my first two books: Diary of a bereaved mother, and From China to Borneo to Beyond are circulated by my Alma Mata, Auckland University.

Tuesday, January 28, 2014

Mother's pickles, Achar







Photo: Thinking of the Achar my mum used to make.

I became a warm fuzzy friend on impulse, We used to buy in Singapore this achar, Big daughter says buy it for 2nd daughter as Chinese New Year. Went to my regular Asian Grocery store, couldn't find it, asked the Cambodian girl, and we found it. She asked me what it was, and I pointed the cucumber, carrots etc. At the check out,another Cambodian girl asked. After paying for 3, I gave her one to share with the other girls. She didn't want to take, I said it is Chinese New Year. Grace Chan, Hui FungGabrielle Chin, Kay Chiew

Thinking of the Achar my mum used to make. Every year, Mum would get us help her julienne lots of cucumber, carrots, to make this pickle.

I became a warm fuzzy friend on impulse, We used to buy in Singapore this achar, Big daughter says buy it for 2nd daughter as Chinese New Year. Went to my regular Asian Grocery store, couldn't find it, asked the Cambodian girl, and we found it. She asked me what it was, and I pointed the cucumber, carrots etc. At the check out,another Cambodian girl asked. After paying for 3, I gave her one to share with the other girls. She didn't want to take, I said it is Chinese New Year.

Monday, January 27, 2014

Mum and Dad's anniversary








Mum and Dad were married in the War time. They grew to love each other. Mum died on the 2nd day of the Chinese New Year. Dad died 18 years later on the same day and month. Which partially fulfills this Chinese saying.
我们不是同年同月同日生,但可以同年同月同日死 We are not born the same month on the same day, but died the same day in the same year


不求同年同月同曰生,只愿同年同月同曰死……出自三国演義。

Remembering my Dad 陳鹞飛/陈鹞飞


Reporters always ask how I became a writer. I told them I owe it to my Dad , John Chan Hiu Fei. 陳鹞飛/陈鹞飞who made us kids write one composition a day during our holidays.
Dad was also a very hands-on person, and taught us to have a keen eye of the environment. Today, I was cooking daikon soup, and I remember he used to do this.

Saturday, January 25, 2014

Dan Bremnes and tear fund


When I was in Primary school, I went to school with some kids from the Methodist Children's home. They walked to school bare footed.


 











Dan Bremnes was in Mt Albert Baptist Church this morning. He spoke to us and reminded me of freezing Canada when I was a student there.
Dan is a truly gifted Canadian worship artist and grew up serving on his local church worship team in Canada. He is immersed in writing, performing, arranging and recording music. He was at MAB on Sunday 26 January with TEARfund(inbetween playing at Parachute Festival). He is an awesome communicator and musician, Dan came with Gavin, senior product Manager, Beth, Sheena and Sharron.




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Wednesday, January 22, 2014

Dad's trunk/chest

Yesterday a pair of siblings, aged 7 and 8, died inside a hope chest. I googled to find out a hope chest is made of wood. I felt so sad for the parents.

Authorities say the pair became trapped Jan. 12 in a chest that had been recalled because it could only be opened from the outside. The deaths have been ruled accidental.

http://www.boston.com/news/local/massachusetts/2014/01/19/funeral-set-for-franklin-children-trapped-chest/DI9gBa4NeJLX65yRNSMgtK/story.html

http://www.boston.com/news/local/massachusetts/2014/01/14/franklin-children-deaths-termed-tragic-accident-hope-chest-was-produced-during-recall-year/WMGv7hcZOX0pv1Ye0uhu8O/story.html

I took a photo of this chest, when Dad came hope from England by plane, his chest traveled by sea. I was 4, and I remembered Mum and Dad carrying the chest back from the motor boat. It was a metal metal truck that it took both of them to carry it.

Mum and Dad always warned us not to go inside it.

It was the trunk that was symbolic of the day Dad came home from England. I looked far and while to look for a trunk.

I took this photo waiting for a chance to write a story. This one in the photo was to represent my dad's chest, we called it metal trunk. He brought it back from England. No one in the village had seen a chest like that.


Photo: yesterday a pair of siblings, aged 7 and 8, died inside a hope chest. I googled to find out a hope chest is made of wood. I felt so sad for the parents. 
I took a photo of this chest, when Dad came hope from England by plane, his chest traveled by sea. I was 4, and I remembered Mum and Dad carrying the chest back from the motor boat.
I took this photo waiting for a chance to do a story.

Saturday, January 18, 2014

Great-Grand Father Chan Kwong Kwok



                                                 Great-Grand Father Chan Kwong Kwok 
 At 18, Great-Grand Father Chan Kwong Kwok was a Xiu Cai (an equivalent of a bachelor’s degree). He was the only Xiu Cai in the village. Unfortunately, because the family was poor, he could not pursue his further studies to the ultimate the Zhuangyuan(状元),

Great-Grand Father was headhunted and offered the position of the “governor”, the head of this big company Kong Nan Seng Agricultural Co, in August, 1907. The directors of the company scouted Great-Grand Father because they found him well educated and an upright man of high calibre.  


When Great-Grand Father sailed, he left my Great-Grand Mother Lee Ngan Kiew back in Kwong Ning.  Great-Grand Mother Lee Ngan Kiew  remained a grass widow through out the time Great-Grand Father was in Borneo.


Invitation to Chinese Pioneers of S-E Asia

I have been invited to join the Chinese Pioneers of S-E Asia

https://www.facebook.com/groups/1445737278988462/

Thursday, January 9, 2014

Support Cameron's law



Dear friends,

I am posting this on behalf of a fellow bereaved mother whose son was murdered.

Support Cameron's Law is designed to bring awareness to, and get a bill passed into law that forces witness's of child abuse to report it.  


https://www.facebook.com/CameronsLaw/info

  
This is the bill that my daughter wrote and we are sending to the Senate and the President :

Sponsor............Christianna Harris
Short Title: Cameron's Law
October 16, 2013
AN ACT
TO: Require that any time child abuse is suspected or witnessed by any citizen or non citizen
 


Today I met a Heather, a grieving mother online and she told me her son was murdered. My heart went all out for her and asked if I could help her in anyway. She has a page is trying to get as many likes on the page as possible to try and get this law passed..

 I chatted with her sister Chavelle to piece the story.

http://m.topix.com/forum/city/apopka-fl/T6LGISEA07U3QUQEB

In 2008, 6 years old Cameron Palmer was in the care of his 49 year Old Grand Uncle. Tony Gonsoulin, has been arrested and charged with child abuse and murder after abusing his six year old nephew to death. Tony is imprisoned for 20 years. 

Police interviewed Richard D'Ginto, a neighbor who witnessed the boy being dunked from over a dividing fence. The neighbor told police he saw Gonsoulin submerge the Cameron underwater for 20 to 30 seconds at a time, while shouting at the boy.

"The man held him under water and he'd tell the boy, 'You do what I tell you and stuff like that,'" D'Ginto said.

The bill will mean Richard D'Ginto, a neighbor who witnessed the boy being dunked from over a dividing fence will have to report the offense.

 

Wednesday, January 8, 2014

Grandpa and Hail.

Today, hail pelted in Auckland,
In the middle of summer.

 

Hail stones have an intriguing effect on me
I hear them
I dashed to the windows,
I dashed to the deck.
"It's hail! It's hail."


My Grandpa left China about 100 years ago to Tropical Borneo when he was 20. When he was 80s, and I was 18, there was a freak hail storm In Sibu

Our house was on stilts. "Snow! Snow!" we yelled and we all rushed downstairs.

Grandpa in his 80s, and all of six of us aged 3 to 18. ( The Chinese believe that you should not go out in the rain or you will catch a cold.) We laughed and picked the hail, the marble size hail.

We twirled and danced and laughed in the slushy rain. Grandpa cried, he had left his temperate China, never returned and thought he would never, ever see this natural phenomenon again.

Sixty years had past, and God sent a few minutes of ecstasy. We told Grandpa, "You can die now."

My big sis Rose stared out of the window, and thought we had gone mad. When Grandpa died 3 years later, I was in Canada experiencing the coldest winter Canada ever had, minus 28 degrees. I looked out of my window, at the falling snow and whispered, Grandpa, you are now be back at your homeland China. Go and play with the snow, real snow, not hail.

Whenever we have hail, I want to go outside and relive that incredible time again. My grandpa, my siblings and me.

My grandpa wore this official formal dress that he went to meet his maker. Those of you know know me, Charles Chan is number one grand son, and My Dad John Chan, his substitute number one son. The real number one son, was banished to Manchu by the Communists.

Chang Yi's 1953-1955-methodist-school-students.html

http://sarawakianaii.blogspot.co.nz/2009/12/1953-1955-methodist-school-students.html

1953-1955 Methodist School Students' Reunion in 1997

Digging for information and historical records can lead one to surprises and even recovery of long lost friendship. This has happened to me more often than just one off occasion.

Ann Chin and I for example. She has blogged about it...and today I am using two of her photos ...to pay tribute to our teachers and seniors who have gone before us....

Miss Hii and Miss Wong Hie Ding had contributed to the mental and academic development of thousands of students they taught selflessly throughout their life in Sibu Methodist School. They were "angels in cheongsam" (My school magazine essay).

Mrs. Deng has taught chemistry in all three languages - Chinese England and then Bahasa....Fantastic for a China born lady. She could have been one of the earliest research scientists in China but she chose to come to Sibu and to be a teacher.

I will write about Mr. William Hsu in another post.

Here's the "blast from the past" in the words of Ann Chin (New Zealand):.....

Seated on the front row : Miss Hii Siew Ding - Miss Wong Hie Ding - Mrs. Deng Yuk Chi - Mr. John Chan
The banner reads : Sibu Methodist School Senior Middle Three 1953-55 Same Class Mates
42 nd Anniversary/Reunion (after leaving school). 12.12.1997

This is the Senior Middle Three Class which graduated in 1955. They held a reunion in 1997 - 42 years after they graduated.

Amongst the students were
Tang Nguk Mui
Hung Nguk Sieng
Ting Yuk Yuung
Sia Yuung Mang
Wong Siong Ting (Police Commissioner)
Lau Siew Ding
Lau Poh Ging
Lau Ai Hua
Yii Siew Hiong
Yuan Suok Ding
Yao Yee Yaw
Wong Kwong Sii
Ling Tiing Choong
Ling Haw Seng
Tiong Hua Yong
Ngo Ging Choon
Tiong Swee Yew
Chong Sik Ming
Ting Ing Hoo
Wong Teck Sing
Hii Chik Huat
Wong Pang  Chiew
Ling Yew Sing
Ho Tai Siew
Ling Tiing Huah
Ho Ung Hua
Chee Siong Ming
Wong Soon Tiong
Lau  Pik Swee
Hii Hing Mui
Lau Hieng Siik
Siew Nguong Chuong
Ting Ung Leong
Tiong Cheng King
Lau Kwong Swee
Lu Yieng Sieng
Chiew Chung Yu
Tang Tuong Kai
Ngo Teck Hee
Tiong Chiong Hing
Chai Yew Sing
Ling Wei Dieng
Hu Yuk Hiong
Tiong Hua Kwong

(source : Methodist Secondary School Magazine - The Hornbill Vol 10 1979)

Father by Chang Yi


a facebook friend Chien Kai Ming found an old post of Father by my friend Chang Yi

http://sarawakianaii.blogspot.co.nz/2009/12/1953-1955-methodist-school-students.html
(source : Methodist Secondary School Magazine - The Hornbill Vol 10 1979)

The late Mr. John Chan taught in the school before he left on a scholarship to study in England. He retired as DEO of Sibu and passed away in 2006 at a ripe age of 84. He is survived by 9 children who are now living in Kuching Australia and New Zealand. Amongst them I know three personally. Ann went to the Methodist School and took part in musicals like "Gypsy Baron". Elisabeth Chan played good hockey with me. Charles was a budding orator in school and is now a lawyer. The Chan children had a strong foundation in English "as they were asked by Mr. Chan to write an English composition every day and he would mark them himself....."




 This is an old photo of Mr. John Chan when he was DEO in Sarikei giving away a trophy.

 Miss Wong Hie Ding and Miss Hii Siew Ding passed away a few years ago.

In the photo is also the Late Mr. William Hsu who was my Princpal when I taught in the school (1976-1987)

Mrs. Deng still lives in Sibu.


Any further information from you dear readers is always welcome.




And I hope that all of you can have school reunions 45 years or even 50 years after you have graduated from the school.....Cheers!