In the Confucian Paternalistic Society, it was very important to have sons and grandsons. My eldest Uncle Chan Yok Ing was banished to Manchuria and he had no sons. My brother Charles became the number one grandson. My grandpa wore a fine Chinese Ming Dynasty ensemble. You normally only see this in movies.
Foreword
by
Charles
Chan Chok Kwong.
After
Father’s sudden death, the siblings began to open up to each other their
recollections and interpretations of the past events relating to our father
from their individual perspective.
Whilst
such need for reminiscent is normal to any family in similar circumstances,
however with the ease of the internet and the passion and enthusiasm of
siblings and their children, the depth of the colourful past events of generations
of the Chan Clan became apparent. Such was the richness of our family history
that it became clear that they should be recorded as a living book for the
family.
Hence the birth of Ann’s
book.
Ann
received much encouragement to write the book from friends and colleagues. Initially some siblings participated because
it was therapeutic; others joined in for the fun. With 6 generation of history recording is not
only daunting, it was a mammoth task. Ann took the responsibility with much
gusto.
Our
family came from humble beginnings. We are spread over a wide area of the
world. We include many races and cultures. We are proud of our culture that has
assimilated with Kelabits, Ibans, Orang Ulus, Europeans, Bidayuhs, and various
Chinese dialects. Yet, we could sit down and engage a discussion and enjoy a
meal. All these because our ancestors from the Chans and the Kongs left China
in the 1900s, and thus created our own brand.
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