Grand Father, following the aged old Chinese tradition, took a second wife. He married Say Bo as a subsidiary wife, and she would never replace the Role of Grandma, even though the latter died soon after.
The Roman Catholic Church found out and ex-communicated Grandfather. Grandfather became the first in the family to be ex-communicated by the Roman Catholic Church. He was not going to be the last.
Later in life, Say Bo became a Roman Catholic and was a very fervent worshipper. In August 2012, Say Bo turned 100, you can see from the photo how deep in prayer she was, thank the Lord for blessing her, despite trials and tribulation.